Dating after divorce christian perspective
Is it Biblical to date before you are legally divorced? Divorce must be final or it is the same as adultry in God's eyes.Do you think this is correct or are people free to date during the divorce process?The responsibility does not only lay with one person to make the wise choice.As in my circumstances as a survivor, I never would have known or imagined my soon to be ex spouse was capable of doing what was done, or the degree of sexually deviancy that surfaced only many years into the marriage.
Deception is often very charming, and manipulative.
In response to making the same mistake twice, and going into another destructive relationship... Time and relationship with God are foundational in order to make discerning decisions about future relationships.
However, we can't overlook the fact that everyone does not represent themselves to be who they truly are.
I also know this isn't the first and only instance that the church was aware of dating, living together, etc., and chose to do nothing, by means of accountability.
How does one trust leadership when the leaders are not modeling Godly leading? I have found new relationship with Jesus in the past 3 yrs that I have been going through this. And while I hope to perhaps one day have a healthy, Godly relationship, if it be His will, today that is not my focus or goal.
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If 'dating' is only defined as a sexual relationship prior to divorce, (which isn't Biblically condoned before marriage anyway) then we could claim any relationship as 'only friends', yet spending time and investing emotional energy into a friendship.